How To Do You
How to do you!
Talk to a stranger
A completely unknown person. Expose yourself to him/her. No fear of judgment. Even though the stranger is a judgmental ass. Who cares? What can she/he do about it. Chances are you are never going to cross ways with this person ever again. So expose yourself. Talk out loud what you feel. Behave whatever the fuck you wish to behave like. Chances are you will end up exploring your truths.
Wear whatever the hell you want
Fashion freaking talks a lot about you. Consciously make an effort not to conform to the norms. You feel like buying that super glittery dress, buy it. You feel the wacky orange colored mascara would make your inner animal happy, freaking do it. Now, wear it in a closet or outside, that is your choice. But stop buying safe clothes. What you wear makes a lot of difference.
Create instead of destroying
Destruction can be relieving at times. Breaking the glass ceiling can break you free. Ahh that feeling. But what else can help you meet yourself in a better possible way. CREATING. Now don't think that oh I am not the artist kind, I can't create. God! who has that kind of time. Darling, you are creating every second. You are creating your environment, your future. When you posted the last picture on your Instagram, you chose what filter to apply or whether to apply it or not. Or maybe the last you changed the curtains of your house. Or maybe styled your outfit. You are creating all the time. You want to buy that printed table cloth but that will look odd. Let us go for basic black or white. It will suit everything. No, do what you wanted in the first place. We will see if it goes well or not. Chances are that it will go well because it is instinctive, but even if it doesn't, you will know what you are not.
Pursue everything you love
Is it the guy you see in your class everyday. Go talk to him. Try offering your love or friendship or what ever you want. Try pursuing him. But respect consent, lol. Just in case you don't go all crazy forcing yourself on them. Don't do that. haha! Any who, pursue what you feel love for. They say love is the one emotion that vibrates on the highest frequency, so go for it. Is it dancing? Singing? Smiling? Do you love that hot chocolate on winter nights. What else give you similar kind of feeling? Whatever it is, do it more. Did you really enjoy that friend's company. Acknowledge it and do more of it. We often don't care enough to see what we like and what we don't because we are developed with a mindset of conforming to things. You literally become what you love. You usually are what you love. So the best way to get closer to YOU is pursuing all that you love.
Comment if you liked it, I will definitely make a part 2 of it. :)
Toodles
Talk to a stranger
A completely unknown person. Expose yourself to him/her. No fear of judgment. Even though the stranger is a judgmental ass. Who cares? What can she/he do about it. Chances are you are never going to cross ways with this person ever again. So expose yourself. Talk out loud what you feel. Behave whatever the fuck you wish to behave like. Chances are you will end up exploring your truths.
Wear whatever the hell you want
Fashion freaking talks a lot about you. Consciously make an effort not to conform to the norms. You feel like buying that super glittery dress, buy it. You feel the wacky orange colored mascara would make your inner animal happy, freaking do it. Now, wear it in a closet or outside, that is your choice. But stop buying safe clothes. What you wear makes a lot of difference.
Create instead of destroying
Destruction can be relieving at times. Breaking the glass ceiling can break you free. Ahh that feeling. But what else can help you meet yourself in a better possible way. CREATING. Now don't think that oh I am not the artist kind, I can't create. God! who has that kind of time. Darling, you are creating every second. You are creating your environment, your future. When you posted the last picture on your Instagram, you chose what filter to apply or whether to apply it or not. Or maybe the last you changed the curtains of your house. Or maybe styled your outfit. You are creating all the time. You want to buy that printed table cloth but that will look odd. Let us go for basic black or white. It will suit everything. No, do what you wanted in the first place. We will see if it goes well or not. Chances are that it will go well because it is instinctive, but even if it doesn't, you will know what you are not.
Pursue everything you love
Is it the guy you see in your class everyday. Go talk to him. Try offering your love or friendship or what ever you want. Try pursuing him. But respect consent, lol. Just in case you don't go all crazy forcing yourself on them. Don't do that. haha! Any who, pursue what you feel love for. They say love is the one emotion that vibrates on the highest frequency, so go for it. Is it dancing? Singing? Smiling? Do you love that hot chocolate on winter nights. What else give you similar kind of feeling? Whatever it is, do it more. Did you really enjoy that friend's company. Acknowledge it and do more of it. We often don't care enough to see what we like and what we don't because we are developed with a mindset of conforming to things. You literally become what you love. You usually are what you love. So the best way to get closer to YOU is pursuing all that you love.
Comment if you liked it, I will definitely make a part 2 of it. :)
Toodles
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